It’s funny, this twin flame relationship…so much paradox. Some start with the blissful reunion with self then descend into the hall of mirrors, others seem to just get plopped down right in the funhouse parlor not knowing which end it up.
We have all chosen to take on and clear so much in this incarnation, it’s no wonder life always feels like a roller-coaster ride. We are processing and healing our deep inner worlds simultaneously trying to maintain 3D appearances…It’s the 3D overlay that hurts the most, with all of its shoulds and could haves, what if’s and why didn’t I’s? Tumbling us around like laundry in the dryer or worse in the wash on spin
How about this for a “what if?”
What if we choose to let go of 3D expectations and simply honor our deepest selves? Can you imagine that world? The 3D overlay teaches us that to honor the self above all else is selfish and destructive…interesting. Destructive to whom/what? The 3D paradigm could not survive such a what if, it’s function relies on us making ourselves slaves to it…
This is what I have been shown.
When we honor our own deepest needs above all else, we honor the whole. In the twin relationship, if I abuse myself and choose self-destructive behaviors, work etc. then I do so to my twin since we share a soul. Loving myself fiercely honors my twin in a way that material things and 3D trappings can never. That does not mean they can always feel that or appreciate it, especially if they are still deeply embroiled within the matrix. Someone deeply embroiled within the matrix will likely resent you for your self loving behavior since they are not open to receive it…it transcends the 3D world in which they feel they are trapped. They will want you to prove your love for them in more “real world” ways, namely by joining them in their pit of misery.
You have to ask yourself, does this honor me? Does this honor my twin? Does this honor the world? Does this honor Spirit?
Would it not be more beneficial to all to remain in your loving place until they can find their own way to you?
If I were in the pits of misery, I would appreciate the Light shining for me, beckoning me to greater depths of self respect, love and honor. Having the Light extinguish itself to join me would be excruciating and sad.
We cannot always see this Light and our minds will try to tell us it is all rubbish. Our only truth lies in our hearts. This is where we must go for answers.
Now, in this time of great awakenings, I honor YOU by loving myself fiercely and I bow to you, for the Light of your self love has illuminated my path home to me.